Hard NO – Tell him to get in there and clean that bloody mess up. Jesus Christ it’s a wonder he can find his bed in there.
Or better still Mick, if he doesn’t clean his room tell him that you will do it for him. Bring the bin inside and start loading it up. Don’t worry about what goes in, chuck the lot. He will either comply or call your bluff – risk you got to take.
On a side note Taylah’s room used to look pretty much like that until Kylie done the big clean up, Emma’s room is pretty much on par with Connor’s. I have asked Emma when is she going to clean the mess up and she turned around and told me that her Mother was going to do it. Might be a case of bringing the bin in and start loading it up. Emma wouldn’t give a crap though.