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March 8, 2010 at 1:40 am #98155
He was born quite early and we finally brought him home from the hospital after 6 weeks our two Border Collies came and took a look at him sniffed and wagged their tails, the big male decided “just another kid” and walked off, but our female decided he was her special little bloke and for the next five and a half years they were inseparable, two best mates always together. When he went to school she’d just lay around waiting for him to come home and she would greet him by licking his face and getting a ball to play with, she would tow him around the pool by her tail and sleep on his bed every chance she got. 4 years ago we had to have her put to sleep after a 24hr grand mal fried her brain and left her an empty shell, he was devastated we thought he’d never get over her, he’d wake up in the morning telling us “Bessie visited me in my dreams and we played”.
Well I had Reggie (the Collie in my avatar) the girls had Scarlett (a big golden retriever we rescued from a bad situation) and we got one of Reggies and Bessies’ Grandsons a few years ago, but he never bonded with any of them. About eighteen months ago we had to have Reggie put to sleep after his hips finally wore out completely and he couldn’t walk, he was pushing 15 at the time a good age for a collie, all of us were heartbroken, but he’d had a good life
Just after that after a stay at his Uncle and Aunts place he came back jabbering endlessly about their Maltese/ Poodle cross Puppies, in particular one little black one named Phil, me being a collie bloke said “no way not getting a little dog bloody yappy things” anyway after he came home his Aunt rang us up and offered him Phil, we had a talk about responsibilities and after I agreed we went up to Brisbane and came home with this tiny little black furball. Well since then it’s been Bessie x10, Phil sneaks in to sleep on his bed, follows him adoringly everywhere, and what’s better to me is because he’s been brought up with two big rough digs he’s completely unaware he’s a little dog, he fights, runs, wrestles and plays just like them, despite being all of maybe 5 kilos tops, hard as nails and tougher than any cat…..
He slips out the gate when Brens over the road and Bren brings him home, he goes for a walk most afternoons with the big dogs and won’t let anyone but Bren take his lead, best of mates, Bren ever told us when he was old enough to get a job he wanted a job he could take Phil with him, cause little dogs live for a long time like 18 years easy.
Saturday night I took him off Brens bed at 1.00am after he snuck in then for the rest of the night slept curled up between the Collies legs, his next favourite place to sleep.
Last night at around 2.00am he died from Parvo, he was fine at luchtime and has had all of his shots, we think it got into his little heart cause one hour he was fine next he was dead.
As we buried him beside Reg this morning my little Bloke asked me why God would take his dog when he was only young… what do you say?March 8, 2010 at 1:54 am #172793Sad tale mate, maybe one of the other one’s needed company. But kids are tough little buggers and he will be over it in no time.
March 8, 2010 at 1:57 am #172794God doesn’t make any sense when stuff like that happens mate – I’d explain it to in relation to life and how we need to embrace what we have because we’re only mortal and let him grow to make his own decision about the religous side of it.
I’ve had a couple of dogs die and I agree, its not fair. It doesn’t help to think of it but I often wonder why there’s sickos out there that deserve no mercy and life a long life yet some good people/dogs have such hardship and ill fate.
Its better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all
RIP PHIL.
March 8, 2010 at 2:00 am #172795One of the reasons I wont ever have another dog. It always ends in heart break one way or another. Cats are different,they are somewhat expendable.
Sorry to hear of your loss the Bruce. Parvo is running rife around here at the moment too.WE ran a story on it a week or so ago.March 8, 2010 at 2:08 am #172796Sad story Bruce, I have just picked up a little 7 week old blue heler X lab x something for my daughter from Moose,beut little thing. She is nearly 14 and only ever had a cat. call it being in the right place at the right time I dont know but having a Labas my best mate was truly an unforgettable experience. I think the best things to do is explain to your little fella what has happened and he will eventually get over him, make sure you have a marked grave with a photo. Kids are resilient but do need to know whats happened. Moose has 5 little fella’s left if you want to find one of them a new home.
Ollie
March 8, 2010 at 2:40 am #172799I don’t know that we ever get over these things, and to be honest I don’t really want to. We learn to get on though – that’s what’s important IMO.
March 8, 2010 at 2:49 am #172801Thanks you Blokes, the beliefs he has are entirely his own, both of the kids go to a catholicschool so he’s picked up some stuff there, he’ll make his own mind up as he get’s older and I don’t think it’s part of the Dad brief to dash little peoples beliefs. He’s absolutely gutted ATM, he’s watching a DVD and several times has call Phil, then comes to me or his Mum upset, but determined to be brave about it.
The Collies’ upset too, keeps running around looking for his little mate even though he watched us bury him, and the retirever has gone into her usual Morning/sulky thing she does when one of the pack dies.Thanjs again you lot.
Bruce
March 8, 2010 at 7:30 am #172802Bruce I dont know what to say, I sit here in my motel room with my heart aching for you, your young bloke and your family.
Dogs can break your heart but you cant give up because they make your life what it is toSorry again Bruce
TB
March 8, 2010 at 7:54 am #172815Bruce M8 until I got home and read your post I thought I was having a bad day.
I can lose a patient at work, deal with their family and fill out all the paper work involved and not shed a tear but the day I had my little M8 put down at the age of 15 I babbled like a 5 year old.
Let your young bloke know that things will get better.
I said I would never have another dog too Mick but now I have. I didn’t go looking for my new M8, he found me. When the time is right Bruce your young bloke will let you know and then the fun begins all over again.How could I say no to this little guy. Chin up Bruce.
March 8, 2010 at 10:17 pm #172822Thanks again you Blokes, Fester I better not show my Wife that photo, she had a Daschhound she inherited from her Nan when she was a kid (I actually think she grew up in a home for lost animals sometimes), and said it had a great personality.
BC
March 8, 2010 at 11:44 pm #172863Yeah too late my wife spotted that and said if we get a dog she’d like one like that – she’s a cat person so it’s hard work convincing her to get any dog
March 9, 2010 at 12:06 am #172874my condolences go out to you Bruce, your family and the other dogs.
losing a friend always leaves you gutted, be it man or beast.
i hope it brings the lot of you closer in the long run mate
March 9, 2010 at 7:18 am #172875Austblue wrote:
Quote:Yeah too late my wife spotted that and said if we get a dog she’d like one like that – she’s a cat person so it’s hard work convincing her to get any dogDaschounds are like dirtbikes M8 once you’ve owned one you can’t live without one.
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